Cooking was always my way of showing love. From the moment I got married, I became the “feeder.” Every family dinner, every major holiday, especially Christmas, revolved around me in the kitchen, making meals from scratch.

It wasn’t just about the food. It was about creating something special that brought us together.

But when Oliver, my husband, passed away a few years ago, the joy of cooking died with him.

Now, I only cook for myself, enough to get by. But Christmas is different. Christmas is when my son, John, comes home. He’s the reason I still dust off my old recipes, still roll up my sleeves, and get to work in the kitchen.

His love for my Christmas dinners has always been special for me. A kind of pride, I guess. This year, though, something was different.

And not in a good way.

This was the first Christmas with his wife, Liz. They’d only been married a few months, and while they were dating, she always went home to her family for the holidays.

So, naturally, I was curious to see how she’d fit into our family traditions. I wanted it to be perfect. I wanted her to feel welcomed, for us to blend like we had known each other for years.

But, the moment Liz stepped into our house, I sensed an undercurrent.

Maybe it was just me, overthinking as usual, but there was a distance in my new daughter-in-law that I hadn’t expected. Still, I brushed it off. It was her first Christmas with us, after all. She was probably nervous too.

I woke up early that morning, just like I did every Christmas. The house was quiet, and the only sound was the hum of the oven heating up. The familiar routine felt comforting. I threw myself into preparing the feast: the roast chickens, golden potatoes, homemade gravy, and a dozen side dishes that John loved.

I imagined my boy sitting at the table later, his face lighting up the way it always did when he saw the spread.

But, as the morning rolled on and the smell of roasted herbs filled the house, Liz strolled into the kitchen eventually. Her phone was practically glued to her hand, and she barely glanced at me before her eyes scanned the kitchen.

I knew that look. I’d seen it before, like when someone walks into a room and immediately notices all the imperfections. I used to see it all the time on my mother-in-law’s face.

Only, this time, I was the imperfection.

“Hi, Liz,” I said.

She barely responded. She just gave a nod before pacing around the room, still clutching her phone. She peeked at the chickens in the oven and wrinkled her nose.

I pretended not to notice, stirring the gravy on the stove, but my stomach tightened.

Something was coming.

“Hey, Kate,” Liz finally said, taking the milk out of the fridge. “Maybe we should order food this year. Not everyone eats the kind of stuff you’ve made, you know? Those green beans and almonds? I don’t know… And honestly, Christmas is supposed to be fun, right? The food should be enjoyable for everyone.”

Her words hit me like a slap. I paused mid-stir, feeling the blood drain from my face. I didn’t know what to say.

Order food?

Not enjoy what I’d made?

It was like she was telling me that my years of effort, my traditions, meant nothing.

I turned slightly to the doorway, glancing at John, who had come in a few minutes earlier. He was leaning against the frame, casually nibbling on a raw carrot. He didn’t say anything.

He didn’t even look at me. He just kept staring ahead, out the window, as if he hadn’t heard a word of the insult his wife had thrown at me.

That silence. John’s silence. That hurt me more than anything Liz could have said.

I swallowed hard. I didn’t want to make a scene. But what could I do?

People were already in the house, waiting for me to take the chicken out of the oven and pour the gravy into a jar. My brother and his wife were sorting out the desserts, my cousins were watching TV, and the kids were running around outside, just waiting to be called in for lunch.

I couldn’t let Liz’s words ruin Christmas. So, I plastered a smile and forced myself to finish what I was doing.

“Maybe you should order what you’d like, Liz,” I said.

The Christmas meal was exactly how it always was. An absolute feast.

The table groaned under the weight of all the food I’d been cooking since dawn. But as I set the final dish down, the delicious roast chickens, all I could think about was Liz’s words echoing in my head.

Would they enjoy it?

Or had I been fooling myself all these years?

Just as everyone started digging in, John broke the silence.

“Food’s good, right?” he asked, his voice light, as if the whole day had been nothing but smooth.

There was a murmur of agreement around the table. My brother, James, always the loud one, grinned.

“Why wouldn’t it be? Kate’s been making the best Christmas meals for as long as I can remember. Why do you think Laura and I always spend it with her?”

Laura, my sister-in-law, nodded enthusiastically.

“I can’t cook to save my life,” she said. “That’s why James and I do the dessert and rely on your mom to feed us for Christmas.”

I smiled, instantly feeling much better.

John turned to my brother, smiling.

“I’m glad you think so, Uncle James,” he said. “Liz thought maybe we should order in. She wasn’t sure Mom’s food was good enough. But her Chinese food should arrive soon.”

Silence.

It was the kind of silence that wraps itself around a room and squeezes until no one can breathe.

I saw the color drain from Liz’s face. Her hand, mid-reach for the potato, froze. She glanced around the table, her cheeks flushing deep red as every pair of eyes focused on her.

It was one of those moments you could only wish to escape.

“I never said that!” Liz stammered awkwardly, though the guilt in her voice said otherwise.

My brother let out a hearty laugh, piling more potatoes on his plate.

“Nonsense. We’ve been eating this meal for years. Kate always adds a new side to it, but it’s always been the same for the main part. It’s the best part of Christmas!”

John didn’t even blink.

“Yeah, that’s what I thought,” he said, turning back to his food, the conversation already forgotten.

Liz’s face burned with embarrassment, and I almost felt bad for her.

Almost.

But then, I remembered how her words had made me feel not even a few hours earlier. She tried to undermine me in my own home, on the holiday that meant the most to me.

Later that night, when the dishes were half-packed into the dishwasher, Liz slipped into the kitchen.

I could feel her presence behind me before she spoke. I didn’t know what was coming.

Would Liz shout at me for her being embarrassed at the table? Would she break down into tears?

“Kate,” she began softly. “I just wanted to say I’m so sorry. About earlier.”

I didn’t turn around. I couldn’t. The hurt was too fresh and the wound too raw. What had I done to deserve that treatment from Liz?

“Sorry?” I repeated, my voice steady, though my hands trembled as I stacked the last plate.

“I didn’t mean to insult your cooking. It’s just…” she trailed off, struggling for the right words.

“John always talks about how amazing your food is. It’s all I ever hear about. How no one can cook like his mom. And I guess… I don’t know. I got jealous.”

That made me stop. Slowly, I turned around to face her. She looked guilty, nervous, and upset all rolled into one expression. That was when I realized that this wasn’t about the food.

It was about something deeper.

“You felt threatened by my cooking?”

Liz nodded.

“I know it sounds silly, but yeah. I just didn’t think I could ever live up to what you do for him.”

For a moment, I didn’t know what to say. Part of me wanted to snap at her, to tell her how much she’d hurt me. But another part, the part of me that had been John’s mother for 30 years, understood.

She wasn’t trying to hurt me. She was just insecure, trying to find her place in his life.

“Liz,” I said. “You don’t have to compete with me. A boy’s relationship with his mother’s cooking? That’s just sacred between the two of them. But it doesn’t mean there’s no room for you.”

“You really think so?” she asked.

“Of course. I can teach you these recipes if you want. And others! Whatever John loves to eat, really.”

“I’d really like that, Kate,” she said softly.

“Good,” I said, finally smiling. “Now, come on. Let’s get back to the tree before they open all the presents without us. I know Laura’s stocking for me will have all the chocolate truffles I love!”

As we walked into the living room together, I knew that Christmas hadn’t been ruined after all.

It had been tested, yes. But in the end, it was stronger for it.

And maybe, just maybe, Liz and I were too.

What would you have done?

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